Arrived in Palo Alto on Sunday in prep for the big day. Enjoyed our hotel for a bit before heading out to dinner and having thee worst dining experience in history at Chili's. Both sets of supporting Grandparents were in tow, Poppa Harley, Glama, Gigi and Poppa Golf. Can't forget Uncle Trevin and Courtney (more pictures to follow) Late Sunday I got a call our surgery was pushed back from 6:30 to 8:00am. We arrived at 8 (with a hungry and thirsty baby don't forget) and were told "there's been some delays". So.......we walked the halls and tried everything in our power to distract Brinley. Her surgery started at 11:40am. Dr. walked out at 4:51pm and took Rod and I into the consultation room. Dr. Blevins stated Brinley was a strong girl. Surgery went good however they had a few unexpected issues arise. While drilling into the skull bone Brinley had a CSF leak (spinal fluid leak) Dr. took tissue and muscle from another part of her skull to cover and stop the leak. Second ear, same thing. Another CSF leak. Odds of this rare complication happening? Less than 1%. Need I say more. So, we're home. Brinley is slowly recovering. Really swollen, two black and blue eyes. For the past 48 hours I've questioned if I did the right thing. This, after all, is an elected surgery. Then, reality hits, and I'm thankful for my resolve in pushing for this surgery. Grateful for the wonderful surgeon and hospital that took care of Brinley and thankful we have this modern technology. There's many deaf people out there that ferociously argue the CI route. God wanted her deaf, so she should stay deaf. I see it this way.... If I had cancer, I'd try and treat it with chemo. If I lost a limb, I'd use a prosthetic. If I had poor eye sight, I'd get laser eye surgery. If I was deaf, I'd get Cochlear Implants. Simple as that. I hope Brinley reads this blog one day and feels great joy with our decision as parents. We'll have that conversation down the road. So looking forward to it....
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