Olivia the Pig Bash for Brin

Birthday set up at the Yogurt Mill

Rule #49 Red Velvet Cake is simply the best!~ Olivia the Pig

Tables had coloring pages of Brinley as Olivia the Pig....

Olivia the Pig favors

Rule # 114  Never miss a very important party! ~ Olivia the Pig

This is the happiest Brinley has ever been! (thanks to the M &Ms, sprinkle and gummy bear yogurt toppings) Oh, and the hot chocolate!

Glama Rhonda playing tag with the kids to work off some energy 

Seriously the CUTEST group of kids ever...

Brinley is 3. Holy cow! It seems like yesterday I was at Oakland Children's Hospital and got the diagnosis that Brinley was deaf. I remember my Aunt driving home with me from that appointment (and I know she was trying to lift my spirits) but she said something to the affect of  "It's not that big of a deal" and turned up the radio station. I was thinking to myself----- Not that big of a deal? Maybe because YOU don't have to deal with this....you're not the Mom of a baby that can't hear and is deaf. If I could of flash forwarded to Brinley's birthday party yesterday, WOW! I would have viewed this entire process differently. I've had a good attitude and positive outlook (don't get me wrong) but my Aunts comment was right on point. It's not that big of a deal . Brinley amazes us every single day. Last week at school her teacher came running up to me and said while they were rolling play dough Brinley asked "Can you help me roll it, OK?" That's a 7 word sentence after hearing for 20 months. Average for this age is a 2-3 word phrase. Yay Brin! To all the Moms out there that are struggling with a child that has a special need (whether it be hearing loss, ADHD, Autism, or anything else) the most important thing you can do for your child is acknowledge your child's weakness and vow to do everything possible to assist them to becoming the best they can be. I know parents that have got a diagnosis or been told their child might possibly have an issue and the parents blow up, not my child, how dare you kind of attitude....and their child goes untreated.
As each year, each month, each day goes by OUR pride in Brinley (and Danica!) just multiplies~ They are teaching us the biggest lesson there is to learn in life. Patience, understanding, devotion and unconditional love.Can't wait until our little lady turns 4!

Boom shake shake shake the room....

Fly girl in the making? I think so! In the morning I always turn up the volume to get the girls pumped up for a good day at school. I think it's hilarious how some say deaf kids can't experience music appreciation, it's Brinley's favorite time of the day!  Notice Brinley's new choking dance move? Apparently her and her big sister have been playing "doggie" and since we won't let them use a leash, they pretend. Crazy girls!

How stinking sweet is Danica?!!!!??? Brinley is lucky to have such a helpful sister and best friend in D

-Sassy Pants-

Love it!

I sneezeeeeee AaaaaChoooo

Brinley "Bless you Momma"

Me "Thank you"

Brinley "Welcome"

Brinley + Stanford = Love!

It's been 7 months since Brinley's last "tune up" on her fairy ears. I took her for what turned out to be a 3-hour appointment. For 2 years old, she did great! I’m a little exhausted, the drive home took almost 3 hours in rush hour traffic. No bueno!

Diagnosis: Brinley has a perforated left ear drum (hole in eardrum that never closed up from her surgery last year and still has a ear ache in right ear drum with fluid) Poor girl! On the bright side, Brinley sound booth reflected she’s hearing between 20-25 decibels! That’s fantastic since average hearing is set at @ 20 db. If anything, she has average to mild hearing loss. Better than being profoundly deaf as she was a year ago, Dr. said she could stand next to a jet engine and not even flinch. Hooray!!!!

Our audiologist Jan was surprised at the strides Brin has taken since her last appointment. In the video clip Jan has Brinley's ear hooked up to the computer and she gives off a series of internal beeps. When Brinley hears the beep, she puts a block on the pyramid. She’s really growing into her ears and loving to listen. What a gift!

We are doing good on the Ling sounds:Ahhhhhhh, eeeeeee, shhhhhh, SSSSSS, MMM but still struggling with oooo --for all you CI Moms and Speech Therapists that know this lingo. For you CI parents....a fellow CI family created a Ling 6 Iphone application. I downloaded it, here's the format below. Search Ling 6 in itunes.

Brin is exhausted, nighty night!

1 year Anniversary

April 20th marks the anniversary of Brinley's activation of sound, 365 days of hearing. I'm nervous and super excited about making it to this point. A year ago when we were told Brinley was deaf I was extremely depressed and thought to myself "what in the hell are we going to do"? My thoughts were what kind of life will she live? What does this mean for Danica? In a way I felt a little jipped, mad at God for not making my child "perfect".
MY OHHHHHH MY how time changes everything. I pray every single day (more than once) to God and thank him for my daughters. They are both perfect just the way they are. I've accepted this fact and my life has been able to move forward at lightning speed. So has Brinleys.

On Brinley's hearing birthday I'll post a short video with her progress. Today in speech therapy her therapist was thrilled, Brinley had 5 new sounds,YAY! For those with special needs kids you Mommies know how we celebrate the small things!

*Driving in the car looking out window Brinley will yell "WOW! Dan-KA (for Danica) CHIRP CHIRP" when she sees a bird or Itty At for Kitty Cat.
*Yesterday when finished with lunch "Mommi, All Dun"
*Looking for our dog "Ju diss (Justice) Where are ooooo (you)?"
*Rocking her baby "Shhhhhhhh, baby Ni Ni"
*Da Da bye bye

These days are so special and I'm thankful to be home. At Target the other day I was pushing the girls in the stroller telling them a joke and laughing when Danica asked me to stop the cart. I did and asked her "what's wrong honey?" Her reply was so precious. She said "Nothing, It just feels so great to have a Mommy". Totally unexpected and beautiful. Our children are a relection of ourselves and by the love Danica and Brinley show others-and while there's always tons of room for improvement
I must say we are doing a damn good job :)

In closing I thought I'd post my inspiration for creating this blog. 16 months ago, the day I found out Brinley was deaf I was driving home from Oaklands Childrens Hospital when this song came on. It took on a entirely new meaning to me and my life. Anyone that has daughter's know that special bond that is unbreakable. Thanks for reading...
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Proud Momma

I haven't had a chance to blog in awhile. Between my husbands
birthday, preschool, speech therapy, Thanksgiving, Christmas, family
events, Danica's 4th birthday and Brinley's 2nd birthday- I've been
kinda busy! But tonight I feel like talking :)

Brinley is 2. It's been 8 months and 14 days since she's been
"activated". I have many mixed emotions about the process. I mean, I
wouldn't change a thing. Demanding authorization from insurance
company, REFUSING appointments months out and just throwing myself
into the world of deafness. It's been hard on Rod and I. Mentally and
physically exhausting. But at the same time it's been impowering. I
think how hard it is on me and then I feel super guilty. It's not hard
on me----- it's hard on Brinley. She's the one that has to wear her
equipment daily, deal with all the tweaks and issues that come along
with it. The stares, the questions, pre-ops, genetic apts. It
couldn't feel good to wear heavy sound processors over her tiny ears
every waking hour. Or the long hours of rehab and all the extra work
it takes just to "listen". But she's doing it and doing it with grace.

It will almost be 9 months since our daughter has been hearing. She
follows commands for example:

Go get your shoes on
Time to brush your teeth
Its time to take a nap
Jump up at the table
Lets go wash our hands
Give Sissy a kiss
Buckle up
Daddys home
Time for bed
Wheres your baby?
Do you want to go to the park?
Time to go outside
Go get your jacket etc.....

In the last month she's spoken the words

More
Ma Ma Ma
Da Da
Esssse for please
Esssse for cheese when talking a picture :)
Dog for dog
Mmmmmm when eating something good
NO!
OT for hot
Shhhh when putting baby to sleep
Hi
Hey
Uh Oh
Ni Ni for night- night

It's not exactly where I thought we would be at 9 months post
activation but I need to compare her to a 9 month old hearing baby.
They don't say much but babble at this age so when looking at the big
picture....we're on the right track.

<3 Reiswigs

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